I have been in a lot of relationships to know how men work! They tend to be very complex and indirect human-beings. I am not saying that us women are not because we are but there is a difference. Men like to fall into a pit and not have any emergency exit strategy.
Cheating is pretty much all about the pleasure for men and they do not put in much thought about the consequences from either party. Whereas women tend to plan these things out, very precise, and we know exactly how it is going to end. In no way am I saying, "Hey, men are stupid," but if thinking with your penis is stupid then so be it.
If you are in a relationship you are pretty much bond by the love contract until the policy must be revised. Now if someone completely breaks the agreement by acting untrustworthy and committing infidelity then there is a problem. Now you can resubmit this contract after all parties have been forgiven and document the case or you can refuse all contracts with this party in the future. In layman's terms you can forgive your partner or break up with them.
If forgiven there are always going to be changes in the relationship. It could be anything from extra nagging, no trust, where you been speeches, etc. Men act as if they do not spread their seed they are going to die and no one can be in a relationship with that so what do you do? You got three choices: break up with him, become gay, or have an open mind to your closed relationship.
We all know how the first two end and the title of this post is "Open Minds in a Closed Relationship". So what does this mean? Lol exactly what it means silly!! Give him exactly what he wants but set rules so you both have control over the situation. But hey are we not in a relationship?? Yes you are but let's be realistic about whereabouts of your significant other!
Emotionally cheating is the worse there is as far as maintaining a relationship. Unless that person comes home with an STD but you were suppose to set rules so that's on you. Sexual curiosity is something that can not be killed by love. Now if you have a person who does not have a problem with staying faithful then you are good!
